Ruth Schaffer Schildhouse Obituary (1927 - 2020)

Ruth Schaffer Schildhouse, age 93, died peacefully Thursday, October 29, 2020, surrounded by family, kisses and love. She died on the day she was born, exactly 93 years later -- a perfect circle of life. Ruth was born in Columbus, Ohio, on October 29, 1927. She was a graduate of Columbus’s University High School (1945), The Ohio State University College of Social Work (1949) and The Mandel School of Social Work at Case Western Reserve University, class of 1952. Ruth’s lifelong objective was to promote international understanding and world peace, one person at a time. After holding various positions in her chosen field of social work, in 1972 she became the first Executive Director of the Columbus International Program, which she led until her retirement in 1999. During her time at the helm of CIP, Ruth brought over 550 international participants to Columbus to both share their knowledge with and learn from local agencies. Ruth’s work brought a global perspective to the agencies as well as to the local families who hosted them. Education, politics and civic involvement mattered to Ruth. She was appointed to the State Board of Education by Governor John Gilligan and then elected to continue a ten-year term. Ruth was active in the Columbus Metropolitan League of Women Voters, serving as president from 1970-1974. Hers was one of the featured stories in the 2015 documentary, “Light Undimmed: Stories from the League of Women Voters of Metro Columbus.” Other community positions to which she was appointed include the Ohio Youth Advisory Commission, the first Board of Central Ohio Transportation Authority (COTA), the Ohio Urban Education Coalition, and, in her younger years, one of five youth representatives to the Mid-Century Planning Committee for the White House Conference on Children and Youth. Her “darling, darling family” was also of extreme importance to Ruth. She was preceded in death by husband and life partner of 65 years, Burton Schildhouse, parents, Max & Esther Schaffer, brother Lawrence D. Schaffer, in-laws, Jack & Sayde Schildhouse. sisters-in-law Fran Weinberg (Aaron) & Evelyn Schildhouse, niece Lauren Weinberg, nephew Norman Weinberg, great nephew, Doug Weinberg. Adored and survived by daughters Julie (Mike) Jacobson, Amy (Josh) Greenberg, Melissa (Chip) Welsh, grandchildren Daniel Zabludovsky (finacee Rachael Leitson), Bess & Jake Greenberg, Lily & Max Welsh, nephews, Harold (Claire) Weinberg, Robert (Laurel) Weinberg, niece, Carol Weinberg, many loving friends and longtime Team Ruth caregivers: Frank, Lamahr, Mary, Mary Ellen, Nikki and special caregiver and friend, Angie Hamblen. A private graveside service will be held on Friday, October 30 at New Tifereth Israel Cemetery. For zoom link for the 2pm service please contact Epstein Memorial Chapel. In lieu of flowers, donations are preferred to charity of donor’s choice. In honor of Ruth’s memory, please vote on November 3. Online guestbook at www.epsteinmemorial.com To see a recording of the service please follow the link below: https://us02web.zoom.us/rec/share/6qFuMzV1DewSb5xJIqtTr29RLuK3-7oMUDU7A-vfDhYGsbgFsp_WvSzeFm06wRzX.84by8OyO3gQqCoHX